Dear Experts,

What do I say if a HR hiring manager asks if I’m married? From what I know, I believe this type of question is illegal. However, I still want to be prepared.

What’s a good response that will prevent me from losing a job offer?

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Q#324 Honesty is always the best policy, regardless of the question they ask. This answer should not impact their decision. (@gradversity)

Q#324 Great answers here: http://bit.ly/AtR0E. Take a sec/breath, then refocus on job reqs w/o anger/fluster. (@juliaerickson)

Q#324 If HR asks if u r married n interview, ask y they want 2 know and how does this relate 2 performing the job. (@kgrantcareers)

Q#324 Joke & say, “Is that a trick question? I thought it was illegal to ask that.” Then flash a big smile! (@jtodonnell)

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