It can be hard to meet new people. You might not think you have the time, patience, or social confidence to go out and build your network on a whim. Who does?
Don’t let negative self-talk bring you down and stop making excuses for not going out and meeting new friends and/or professional contacts. You can do it (and have fun doing it, too)!
7 Ways To Meet New People
So, where can you meet new people? Here are some ideas for ways to meet new people:
1. While You’re Practicing Your Presenting Skills
Toastmasters is a great program, especially if you want to meet others. The group brings together a diverse group of individuals with the same goal: to improve their speaking skills. Although it may sound intimidating to practice your public speaking skills to a room of random people, the groups are typically very understanding friendly. Remember, even the best speakers probably had a shaky start, otherwise they wouldn’t have joined.
Make an effort to go to the meetings and learn about the people in the group – you never know who will be a valuable contact in the future!
2. While You’re Competing
If you love competition, join a sports club or league! It’s easier for some people to connect with others while in a team setting. This is a fun way to meet new people, play new sports, and learn how to work on a team.
3. While You’re Sipping A Brew
Whether you enjoy a fancy cocktail or you’re content with a beer, there are plenty of opportunities for networking. Events that surround drinking are fun because people are typically laid-back and more willing to socialize.
Here are some ideas for events to look out for:
- Local beer tours
- Booze cruises
- Bar crawls
- Beer and wine tastings
- Cocktail parties
4. While You’re Breaking A Sweat
Okay, I never really understood why people tried to meet others at the gym. Honestly, the last thing I want to do is talk to someone when I’m on the treadmill, jamming out to Katy Perry, and sweating like it’s my job!
…But that’s just me.
Instead, join a fitness class. It’s more of a social setting and the classes are usually pretty fun and diverse.
Here are a few ideas:
Of course, there are a ton of other awesome classes out there, so check your local fitness clubs!
5. While You’re Helping Out
Volunteering in your community is a great way to meet new friends and professional contacts. You could do anything from event planning to building houses. Check out what volunteer opportunities are available in your area by going online or scouting out the bulletin boards around town!
6. While You’re Learning
What are you interested in? What do you want to learn more about? Whether it’s on social media or pottery, try taking a class. Check out what classes and workshops are being offered in your area. This is a great way to meet new people with similar interests as you! (Cool idea: paint along classes. These classes are gaining popularity – you learn to paint while sipping an alcoholic beverage!)
7. While You’re Exploring
What’s happening in your area? Is there a chili cook-off this weekend? Is a local band playing at your favorite bar? Is there an art show? Does your local park have picnics, festivals, or outdoor plays? Find out what’s going on in your town and go check it out. Then, talk to people working, volunteering, or attending the event to learn more about it!
How To Find Events And Groups
So, now you know where to meet people, but how do you find out where to find these groups, events? Well, in addition to talking with your existing network about the local happenings, try these ideas:
Meetup.com is a huge network that helps local groups come together, face-to-face. It’s a great tool for anyone looking to meet new people or try new things.
Here are just a few of the many types of groups that you can find on Meetup:
- Professional groups
- Recreational sports
- Hobby clubs
- Social outings
Want to start a book club in your area? Meetup makes it easy to do that, too! Not only can you find awesome, local groups with the click of a button, but you can also organize your own group.
Local Bulletin Boards
While you’re at the supermarket or post office, be sure to take five minutes to check out the bulletin board. You’ll find things like brochures, business cards, and flyers from local groups, businesses, and events. There’s probably something you’d be interested in doing and/or learning more about!
Twitter & Facebook
Like or follow local social media accounts to see what’s happening in your area. This is a great way to get information on local happenings.
Here are some types of accounts to start following:
- The local paper
- The chamber of commerce
- Local organizations, groups, and businesses
Groupon & Living Social
These coupon sites offer awesome deals on local outings, events, lessons, memberships, hotels, and bars and restaurants. You can find great deals on things like horseback riding lessons, fitness memberships, and local outings or events.
(This summer, I got coupons for a parasailing trip, a Boston harbor cruise, and tons of local restaurants!)
Even if you don’t end up getting the coupon, you can still get awesome outing ideas from these websites!
What are your favorite ways to meet new people? Tell us in the comments below!
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